Ok, so I just celebrated 4 years of marraige with my husband. We’ve been together for 5 years total. And sometimes, like now as I try to write this blog post, he is busy talking to the animals (I call him Dr. Doolittle) and I’m having a hard time concentrating on writing. And then there are other times, I wish I could wave my magic wand and change certain things about him.
Don’t get me wrong. He is a great guy and I love him. But I really enjoy my time alone, so it’s been sort of a challenge to not only share my space with someone, but to be with him 24/7 (we both work at home - together).
Hey listen, if anyone should be recreated - it’s me. He’s this sweet, kind, giving soul, and I’m this stubborn Capricorn from New York City. Let’s just say he is the “easy going” one.
Listen, please don’t start worrying about me. I do have a healthy self-image and love for myself as a perfect child of the Universe. However, I’m just trying to be a little honest about my friend named, Ego. (I hear he gets around.)
Nonetheless, the question came up today (in my mind)…because there was this one thing that’s been bothering me about our relationship…and I kept harping on it (again, in my mind…it gets crowded in there sometimes, you know?).
Then I thought, “Rhonda, you know better! The more you focus on this one thing that you don’t like, the more of it you’re going to get!”
I knew I needed to change my thinking. But I was kinda stuck. So I meditated. Connected with source. And then I visualized how I would like things to be.
How I would like my husband to be.
To do that, I had to spend time (just a few minutes) thinking about what I wanted. As I spent time thinking about what I wanted, I started to feel better.
And just doing that visualization for 5 minutes shifted me completely. I wound up seeing things in a different light. I wound up seeing him in a different light. And he felt it too. I could tell.
I realized that it was my thoughts that was creating the situation that I didn’t like in the first place! In fact, I attracted ALL OF IT to me.
It’s amazing how effective visualization is. Mike Dooley says you only need to visualize a couple of minutes a day. How easy is that? And the results are amazing.
So…to answer the questin, can I recreate my husband? Absolutely! Do I want to? Well…many just a couple of things…
